Head of School Blog

As a new, young leader, I had an overinflated view of my importance to my team. I believed that if I was out, things wouldn't run as smoothly. Naively, I thought that was how leadership was supposed to look. The leader was the north star and without him the team would lose its way.

It took years of growth for me to realize that if I have the right people and lead them well, they will be just as effective without me as they are with me.

Whether you are a sports coach, leader of an organization, or administrator of a school, one of your most difficult tasks will be to assemble a strong, effective team. This is NOT an easy thing to do for several reasons. Not the least of which is because you are going to ask a group of people to work toward a goal that is bigger than each of them. In other words, they must be willing to put aside self-promotion and focus on what is best for the organization. 

Throughout my career in education, I have worked with several teams, many of which I assembled. At the time, I thought they were strong and effective. Unfortunately, that wasn't always true. In fact, many of the teams I assembled had major weaknesses with personnel that I had to address for the sake of the school. 

The longer I lead, the more I believe Patrick Lencioni when he says most “firing problems” are actually hiring problems. In my own words, it is because I failed to accurately assess whether the person truly aligns with the school's core values. 

As a result, Edison's hiring process has evolved every year since I took the helm in 2018. Today, the process involves several members of the current team, and every step is designed to assess a candidate's alignment with Edison's mission, values, and culture. 

In addition, we introduce candidates to the virtues we believe make an ideal Edison team player: humble, hungry, and smart — principles taken from Patrick Lencioni's book “The Ideal Team Player.” Our improved hiring process has allowed us to bring incredible educators who are fully committed to what we are building. Understanding our values, mission, and expectations allows each person to focus their energy on helping each other and helping each child reach his/her potential. 

Being a small school — 16 total employees, including me, each member of the team has multiple roles to fill. Which means, when one person is absent, the impact is felt immediately. In these instances, if a team member is misaligned, the strain on the rest of the team can be significant. Times like these test the character and strength of the team. 

Recently, the Edison team was tested unlike any other time in my eight years as Head of School, and they demonstrated why they are the best team I have ever had the privilege of working with. 

The test came while I was attending the NAIS Thrive 26 conference in Seattle. Two of our teachers were out due to family matters. During the week, two more got sick and ended up being out. That meant about one-third of our team was out during this week. With many of the teams I've worked with during my career, situations like this would have triggered calls for me to close the school. 

But NOT this team!

The rest of this team stepped in wherever they were needed. They covered classes, adjusted schedules, and supported each other to make sure our students continued to be served well. 

I had confidence that this team could handle any situation that arose in my absence, and they proved it!

One of my goals as Edison's leader is simple: I cannot become so important to Edison that the team cannot overcome challenges without me. 

When you build the right team, leading is not about being indispensable. It is about creating a group of people who are strong enough to succeed even when the leader is away. 

More than anything, I see myself as a life coach to the kids enrolled at The Edison School. There is so much they need to know about life before they leave, and as I frequently remind them, “my time with you is limited.”

This past Sunday, I had the opportunity to accompany four of our high school students to an awards luncheon hosted by another non-profit in our area. These are the four oldest students at Edison and have heard more of my life lesson talks than anyone else, so it was a chance to see if they could apply what they were taught. 

I was NOT disappointed! They made me very proud!

The students cleaned up well and dressed handsomely for the event. Many of the things we talked about over the years were displayed by each of these young people, but my favorite was the fact that none of them got on their phones during the entire event. They remained engaged in conversation with each other and listened to the presentations attentively because they were not distracted by their phones. The best part of this lesson was that I did not have to remind them about it. 

When we take time and are intentional to teach young people life lessons, they will get it. It is not just our words that teach these lessons, but our actions as well. We must be careful to talk about these and set the right example consistently. They are watching, even when we think they are not. 
 

In the first team meeting of every season, regardless of the sport, when I was growing up, my coaches would always share with the parents and players their strategy for the upcoming season. They wanted us to understand the plan so we could work toward a common goal, usually to win a championship. Now, as a coach, I prepare my team’s strategy and present it to them at the beginning of a season. I want them to buy into the strategy so we can be the best we are capable of that season. Having a strategy is vital for athletic teams to be successful and reach their potential. The same is true for organizations like The Edison School. 

About a year ago, I worked with a couple members of Edison’s administrative team to develop the strategy that we believe is setting us up to impact kids and their families for years to come. There are three parts to Edison’s strategy that compliment our core values and help us live out our mission to foster a community of connection and dignity, ensuring every child receives the unique support they need to thrive. 

1. We partner with parents – parents know their kids better than anyone, and we are intentional about our role in the lives of their child. We know parents are the driving force in their child’s education, and we want to come alongside them to help their child grow and reach their potential. One thing we do to partner with parents is have them fill out a form at the start of a school year that asks a guiding question…”What should education as unique as your child look like?” The answer to this question drives our partnership for the sake of their child.
   2. We prefer kindness over niceness – kindness comes from a place of care and concern for the well-being and personal growth of someone else. Kindness requires the courage to have honest and often difficult conversations with others to help them become their best. Niceness avoids difficult conversations because they make us uncomfortable. At Edison, we would rather get uncomfortable with each other because it makes us better. 
   3. We treat everyone with dignity – A child’s value is not based on what he/she does, the grades they earn, how well-behaved they are, or what they can do for us. Their value and worth are inherent by the simple fact that they are alive, and every human deserves to be loved, seen, and cared for. 

   
   This three-part strategy is simple and intentional, allowing Edison to transform the lives of our students and their families.